Personal Stories of Parents/Carers of ME Sufferers
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parents and carers of ME
sufferers. Please add your story - visit the Your Story
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Lili collapsed after her last hospital visit. She passed out with a seizure, her body violently shook, and paralysis spread throughout her body. It was an extreme reaction to the overload of physical, cognitive and sensory attack on her body during that year, but this last journey to the hospital was the straw upon the last straw that broke her body down.
She never recovered.
My beautiful daughter is totally bedbound.
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Maureen
My daughter was severely affected for ten years. From the age of 8 until 18 , she is completely well and now a married woman of 31yrs of age , I knew we were lucky, her recovery a source of hope then , and now by those who know us. Those years were a nightmare, we were constantly under threat, we battled home tutors, school psychologist, threats by a paediatrician to take her from us and put her in a hospital with other non sick children! Three years ago I became ill, on
Boxing Day 2007 and didn't leave my bed till March. I am haunted by my daughters past, that my child felt this pain and confusion torments me
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Ryan is often too weak to use a regular wheel chair. Insurance is denying the
motorized wheel chair prescribed by an MD, and fitted for Ryan by a medical
supply company that originally had a work order *from* the insurance company to
go to the home and fit a special chair. Why would that happen?
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So Rose
had to do a 6 week diagnostic test for PRS with two 6-second sessions of physio,
adding on 10% each week and starting with 10 minutes high activities. This
included education, art therapy and visitors.
Even if Rose was unconscious from blacking out then someone had to read to her
and the curtains had to remain open - 10% each week.
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He started to deteriorate from then and ended up
in hospital for a few weeks, test after test and as usual everything came
back clear. He was referred to a rheumatologist and she said he was fine and
to send him to school. I was dismayed by this as me and my family
could all see that David was a very physically ill little boy….....
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Even if it had been the right
treatment, by that time it was too late: so many years of neglect,
disbelief, wrong medication, wrong diagnoses; so many times referred to
psychiatrists, who to a man sent her away because they couldn’t find
anything wrong – with a prescription for an anti-depressant just in case….....
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At this point in
time Birgitte was able to sit in a wheel chair, could
use the
toilet and could move her arms and legs.
However, she is put under conditions of extreme stress. Due to total lack
of knowledge and competence of this illness the nurses and the nursing home doctor still think she has a psychiatric
illness. The treatment manual from the Norwegian ME organisation is, therefore, not being used and the patient is
getting more and more ill. .....
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"Emma"

The
ME charities are campaigning for early diagnosis for this year's ME
Awareness week. Is this an issue? This is our story which tells
how late diagnosis caused us additional problems....
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Samantha

Samantha's story is all too typical of the failings of the medical and
educational professions to diagnose and support young people with ME.
Samantha our only child was born after 18 years of childlessness and was our
dream come true .We were aged 40....
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Suzy
Suzy's
ME came on particularly fast and severely.

This, from her parents, details how she became ill and how she has lived
for the past three years.
It's difficult to condense over three
years of awful experiences and paperwork into a short account that can
convey the magnitude and the seriousness of the situation concerning the
illness ME, but we will try.
Suzanne was a high achiever, academically and
in sports....
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The following story has been
submitted to Invest in ME to inform those persons who have a significant
interest in resolving ME-related matters as to the alleged problems which
can occur with a psychiatric-based approach to ME.
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A speech given by
Shelia Barry at the launch of the book 'Skewed'
by Martin J Walker. Sheila is an ordinary mother who's daughter suffered
from ME for many years before taking her own life. Sheila has endeavoured to
set up a register of suicides directly caused by ME and the devastating
effects it has on people's lives. The number of suicides, suicidal attempts
and serious self harm are high among people with ME, yet there are no
official figures and little official or public recognition of the enormous
impact ME has on peoples' lives.....
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Casey was diagnosed with CFS at age 9 and again at age 15. It caused him
to feel weak, unable to think, and exhausted. He was plagued with headaches,
stomach problems, and had major sleep disorder among a list of daily
symptoms. Casey persevered and did not want people to know his condition.
Early on, he knew that medical help was unavailable and furthermore, he was
met with disbelief in the school and in the doctor’s office......
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